My novel, as most of you know, deals heavily with porn. So I've done a lot of research. And because of this, I still stay up-to-date with things going on in the porn industry. Well, I was just reading an agent/filmmaker/porn actor's blog. And I didn't know whether to laugh or cry.
People don't realize what they are contributing to when they look at porn. Let me just quote a few things he said:
most whores opps i mean women in this day and age and world we live in have fu**** half the city by the time they are 14 and a 18 year old most of the time has fu**** hundreds of guys. they tell me stories of how they lost there virginty and how many guys they were getting gangbanged by when they were 14.
For those of you that don’t know, I sold my studio and moved. I am staying on a island on my awesome 43 foot house boat and I just bought a bunch of boats for shooting. I have a 22 cuddy cabin, a 19 center console, a paddle boat, and a cool yellow and white jet ski. I shot 3 brand new teens last week and I am loving this place. There is no LA drama here or LA attitudes and the models don’t show up cracked out to a shoot here. The best thing is the models they are a lot cheaper here.
We are really happy with the outcome of the site and people are staying logged in and coming back many times through out the day. My tracking software is the sh**. Here is one of many girls that emailed me that have not even shot there first scene and want to work. She is pretty cute.
I bought 2 more jet skis so I have 3 now and I built a really cool 10 by 30 foot floating dock with a tiki hut on it. I have been working hard on my web sites and we cant wait till we get the sites big enough to not have to do anything more than check emails lol.
So basically, people, when you watch porn... you are helping this guy buy a jet ski. This guy can't even spell. But he's richer than you. Why? Because you click on his links.
Ummm....
The way he talks about women is so horrible I can't even post it. Women are nothing more than an object in this business. They are sex objects. And here's the thing...young girls get caught up in it. They are intrigued by the porn industry. They WANT to be a sex object. Why? Because media pushes sex. It shows young girls that sexy is beautiful, desirable, and valuable. Forget your heart, forget romance, forget true love -- give your body to random guys so other guys can masturbate to you. You'll feel wanted, beautiful, loved, and so valuable.
NOT! They believe the lie, so they get into the industry. Then what happens? They are treated like dirt. They are tied to trees and called dirty whores while they have eggs thrown at their faces. No, I'm not making that up. They are choked and strangled and beaten, all for some fetish porn. They are used, over and over again. And they don't even know what it's like to feel beautiful. They only know what it's like to be used.
Men, seriously, do you want to be a part of this? I know you separate it all. You don't think about the reality behind the stuff you look at it. You are just concerned about yourself and an orgasm. But how can you find this stuff pleasurable? How can you possibly separate reality here?
You are helping some creep buy a jet ski. You are helping a woman fall further from the way God created her to be. You are showing her that she's an object, just like everyone else. You aren't valuing her. You're using her. Just like the guy who has a brand new boat, thanks to you. Is it worth it? Is your orgasm, your quick fix, worth it?
Isn't real sex -- real, beautiful, married sex -- so much more desirable than this crap? You can have your orgasm, have your pleasure, and also show a woman she is loved and desired. Your wife. OR... you can do the opposite. Show women that they are nothing more than a piece of trash. Have your orgasm and walk away. Till next time.
I know porn addictions are DEEP. It's a VERY, VERY difficult addiction to break. But come on, stop ignoring reality. Don't forget that those women have hearts and souls. Don't use them. Don't hurt your wife or girlfriend. LOVE.
Love is more important than your sexual appetite. Turn off the TV, stop going to the mall, and stay at home writing a list, every night, of everything you love about your wife or girlfriend.
In turn, you'll love the girls in porn enough to be different. To show them they are not just bodies. They are people. Hearts. Souls. They need love. So does your wife or future wife. Turn from yourself and LOVE.
Seriously. Instead of supporting this guy's jet ski fund, support Pink Cross.
5 comments:
Thanks for sharing this info. I will say a prayer. This is straight crazy (a mental disorder) what people are doing to these women and the men who enjoy seeing it and those getting paid from it.
First of all, you are awesome! God has gifted you with a way to say all this plainly, but with umph!
I Love this, and it get's me pumped! God can deliver men from this junk through OBEDIENCE. It isn't a bipity bopity boo kinda thing... it takes supernatural strength through God's grace... then applied in obedience.
Eventually God rewires a man. He can see the terror... the pure evil in all of this. Suddenly, he is able to hate the sin and to see it as God sees it.
I am so blessed to be one such man. I wouldn't be here today without you deciding to stick by me and keep loving me... even though it was the hardest thing to do.
Today, I am free. I am coming up on three years out of this deadly mire. I didn't realize how dead I was, until I got a shock of reality.
Now, I can see the reality of all this more and more, and I thank God for the clarity.
May God be praised and blessed because of your boldness. I pray that more and more men and women would see the through the lies to the truth.
I love you my activist! I am cheering you on!!!
-yours-
I have to remain anonymous, because I'm ashamed of the sins I've committed. I'm a female and often looked at porn myself. I have followed your blog for quite some time and although I do not agree with every piece of advice you give, I do want you to know that you have spoke directly to my soul. Ever since I've been able to truly see the sin that goes into porn, I have been repulsed by porn. I recently looked at porn and did not feel "turned on" the way that I used to. I literally felt ill to my stomach. Thank you for reaching out to me through your blog. And although I am sorry you experienced such pain through your husband's past struggle, I have a bitter sweet feeling about the situation. I am terribly sorry that you suffered (and seems like you still do at times) but your suffering has opened my eyes. And for that I'm grateful.
Ash, George is exactly right. Your boldness is so incredibly beautiful to me. I know that you receive compliments a thousand times over for what you write, but again and again I continue to be challenged and inspired and to see all the beauty of your heart. You may be hundreds of miles away, but you are very much a part of my life. Thank you for being such a blessing to me.
Anonymous -- I used to look at porn as well. Started before I hit high school. I've done the chat sex, phone sex, all that nasty stuff. And there were many times growing up I considered being a porn star. Not that I knew what I was talking about. I don't think most girls do. But I wanted to be valuable and sexy. I thought I'd find that by enticing men and being desirable to thousands of them. Little did I know...those women aren't desirable, they're used. Then they're tossed aside.
I have been on both sides of this fence. But George's struggle with porn still hurt, because he lied for so long and I had let that stuff go long before him and I met.
BUT...it is also bittersweet to me. I'm not super excited about speaking out against porn all the time. It's not something I wanted to do. But I'm here now. And I write for people like you who can find some sort of hope inside of my words. There is hope in the midst of porn. I hope everyone finds it.
And Brooke, thank you so much. You are so sweet! At least you're in the same state. MOVE! It's really, really pretty here. :)
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